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Pride Will Kill You – 10 Practical Ways to Kill it First

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Pride says to God, “I’m more important than you.” Pride would have its own way, rather than the Lord’s. God alone is worthy to receive honor, glory, and praise. But pride tries to hijack it for ourselves.

1 Peter 5:5 says, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” Which do you want from God: his opposition or his grace? If grace is what you want, it is vital that you lay aside pride.

Pride is the root of every sin. It has the audacity to disobey the loving, wise God who has purchased you. Pride wreaks havoc on your spiritual life.

We must declare war on pride lest we fall into sin and put enmity in between us and God.

What is pride?

It’s essential to know our opponent in this war. We need to know what pride is and what it looks like. We must be able to identify pride from a mile away. Let’s take a look inside the camp of our enemy.

Pride is that desire in you to receive more praise. It is the desire to be exalted rather than to glorify God. The proud person is confident in their own ability, and they do not rely on God’s grace.

Here is a non-exhaustive list of indicators to be watchful of:

  • Frequently putting all of the attention on yourself
  • Struggling to empathize with the sorrows of others
  • Feeling self-pity when you’re not praised
  • Constantly considering what others think of you
  • Avoiding people who are better than you at something
  • Easily finding flaws in others

Now that you can identify pride, you’ve got to know how to fight it. Here are 10 practical ways to be killing pride:

(Click here to continue reading on at BethanyGU.edu.)

Have We Been Singing Lies?

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A.W. Tozer said, “Christians don’t tell lies, they just go to church and sing them.”

I heard this quote from someone else, and I haven’t seen (or been able to find) the context. So, I have been left to wonder at the meaning. Maybe he is addressing how poorly written some Christian music is. Perhaps he is addressing how we sing words we don’t really mean.

Either way, he is right.

Distracted from True Lyrics

I love it when I am able to truly focus the attention of my mind and heart on the Lord in worship. But, I sometimes find that I will become absent-minded while thinking about the inaccuracy of the words the lyricist penned.

There isn’t a problem with evaluating the words you sing. We are supposed to be discerning of what we allow to influence our souls. Our inclination should be to reject falsehoods and cling devotedly to the truth.

Missing the Purpose of the Music

The problem is that when I am unable to sing the words of a song together with my fellow saints, I am missing the point of the time of worship. Andrew Smith said, “Music in worship has three purposes: to codify the truth, to unify the church through the ages, and to glorify God.”

As my mind wanders, I miss the beautiful opportunity to declare the truth with my brothers and sisters. This brings us back to the original problem: Are we even singing the truth?

Why We’re Missing the Purpose

Most worship songs I know are faithful to the Bible, but some of them are written with laxity and entangled in untenable claims. Why? Because American evangelicalism has developed an apathy toward defending the gospel. We are focused on sentimentalism rather than intellectualism. I’m reminded of a video of Voddie Baucham that I watched a while ago. (Feel free to ignore the irrelevant words at the end of the video.)

Though Augustine said he loves singing (and is inclined to approve of it in the church), he was very cautious that the music would not outweigh the words. He said, “Yet when it happens that I am more moved by the singing than by what is sung, I confess myself to have sinned wickedly, and then I would rather not have heard the singing.”

Singing Lies

Now on to potential problem #2.

Rather than dwelling on the words we are singing, we can sometimes let worship become a passive experience. We don’t realize that when we sing “My soul thirsts for you, O God,” our soul may not be thirsting for Him at all.

The testimony of our hearts attests against the words of our mouth. They are at odds with each other.

Should We Sing Anyway?

So, what do we do? Should we stay quiet, or should we sing it anyway? Here are some thoughts that I have been considering:

Be honest with the Lord. Lying lips are one of the 7 things that the Lord hates according to Proverbs 6. There is no gain in being dishonest with Him.

Be honest with yourself. If you truly want your heart’s attitude toward the Lord to change, you cannot convince yourself that you are in a place that you are not. Ask, “Why are these words not true?”

Don’t persist in the wrong mindsets. In the words of Matt Chandler, “It’s okay to not be okay, but it’s not okay to stay that way.” Get to the source of the issue, and renew your mind toward Christ. Fix your eyes on Him. Repent if needed (e.g. if anger toward God is present).

Singing Is a Grace

God graciously gifted us with the ability to sing and delight in it. The Bible contains 50 direct commands to sing (Source: Bob Kauflin, http://bit.ly/2oMJfJS). I would highly recommend the message I linked as the source in the previous sentence.

“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” – Philippians 4:4

Why Are We Passionate About Missions?

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I hope to see a day when I’ll be in another culture, preaching the gospel of Christ. I am currently a student at a missions-training university in Minnesota, where I am being equipped to take the church to where it is not. My goal is to be a long-term missionary.

In this school, there is a great enthusiasm for doing missions. The students are passionate about going. The faculty is passionate about equipping and fielding. There are many incredible reasons to pursue this passion.

The Glory of God

God is worthy of infinite praise, and He desires the worship of all peoples. He commands us to go to all nations to make known the knowledge of His glory. We are His friends if we do what He commands us (John 15:14). Out of love and reverence for our gracious Lord, we go.

There is one passage in the Bible that I see many students and faculty encouraged by frequently. “For the earth will be filled with the knowledge of the glory of the LORD as the waters cover the sea,” (Habakkuk 2:14). We are so excited for the beginning of the age when we will be with the Lord forever. At this point, every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father.

A passion for God’s glory is always the primary reason for good multi-ethnic ministry. When we cease to be passionate about Him, we cease to be doing Christ-honoring work. “Whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31).

The Joy of People

John Piper said that “We exist to spread a passion for the supremacy of God in all things for the joy of all peoples.” When we evangelize, we carry the message of life and hope to a dead and hopeless world. God wants a people who are ever rejoicing in Him.

We are commanded to love our enemies and our neighbors (Matthew 5:44, 22:39). To keep the gospel from a person is to display a lack of love for that person. This is true regardless of the situation. Sharing the gospel is the most loving thing to do even when it feels awkward, when it causes persecution, when it causes you to live in poverty. We have the joy of Christ through the work of His Spirit (Galatians 6:22), and we get to spread the gospel to create joy in Christ among men.

One of the students, Elisabeth Greenough, remarked: “Our end goal is not simply to change anyone’s poverty level; our end goal is to bring them joy in Christ alone.”

We have the privilege of being used by God to reconcile sinners joyfully to Himself. Matt Chandler said that when we do missions, we participate in a “cosmic take your child to work day.” Salvation is the work of our sovereign Lord.

Trials Are Gain

We have the privilege of suffering for the Lord, and missions is one way that we may suffer. Our suffering produces at least 2 blessed things in believers: endurance and glorification. Both of which scripture says is a reason for joy. Consider the following passages.

“The Spirit Himself testifies together with our spirit that we are God’s children, and if children, also heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ—seeing that we suffer with Him so that we may also be glorified with Him.” – Romans 8:16-17

“It has been given to you on Christ’s behalf not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for Him.” – Philippians 1:29

“Therefore we do not give up; even though our outer person is being destroyed, our inner person is being renewed day by day. For our momentary light affliction is producing for us an absolutely incomparable eternal weight of glory.” – 2 Corinthians 4:16-18

“For me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.” – Philippians 1:21

“Consider it a great joy, my brothers, whenever you face various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. But endurance must do its complete work, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing.” – James 1:2-4

It’s Exciting

Many aspects of missions are thoroughly enjoyable. Missionaries get to experience unique cultures, places, and people. Here are some exciting facets of missions.

  • Learning a new language
  • Meeting new people
  • Seeing the world
  • Eating new food
  • Praying for people you’d have never known
  • Experiencing new cultures

Ultimately One Reason

Missions will now always be that pleasant. We cannot count on places, cultures, or people to bring us contentment in our work. Our contentment and joy must always be Christ, lest we fail. We may be martyred, lose all comfort, experience persecution, or stay in spiritual trenches. But, it is unquestionably worth it to say to the nations “come, magnify the Lord with me.”

We have one goal: that God is glorified. “Ascribe to the LORD you heavenly beings, ascribe to the LORD glory and strength. Ascribe to the LORD the glory due his name; worship the  LORD in the splendor of his holiness.” – Psalm 29:1-2

“Someone asked if the heathen who have never heard the Gospel be saved? It is more a question with me whether we — who have the Gospel and fail to give it to those who have not — can be saved.” — Charles Spurgeon

7 Reasons Why I’m Not Kissing Until Marriage—And Why You Shouldn’t Either

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It seems that there are a lot of young couples around me right now, and a lot of new relationships are forming quickly. Due to that, I thought this exhortation would be helpful, and sometimes necessary, for my brothers in Christ to hear.

I have given a list of reasons why you should not kiss until you are married. I hope this encourages and sanctifies you as you read and consider what I have written.

Kissing causes temptation.

You should not even put yourself in a situation where you may be enticed to sin. Christ equates lust with adultery. However normative lust seems in our culture—it is an abomination. I plead with you, brother, not to waver in your pursuit of all that is holy.

We are told to lay aside anything that keeps us from running quickly after Christ as well as the sin that ensnares us (Hebrews 12:1-2). “But sexual immorality and any impurity or greed should not even be heard of among you, as is proper for saints,” (Ephesians 5:3, Emphasis Mine).

Consider whether you are deliberately getting as close to sin as you can, without actually touching it. This is not good. “But each person is tempted when he is drawn away and enticed by his own evil desires. Then after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin, and when sin is fully grown, it gives birth to death,” (James 1:14-15, Emphasis Mine)

It is more passion than you might think.

“But, what if kissing doesn’t cause you to lust. There are many cultures that kiss merely as a greeting,” one may reason. There are a couple errors with this statement.

First, you are not in one of those cultures. You do not share their worldview. And, that is not what kissing means to you. I grant that it may not mean as much to the French. But, in our culture, kissing is progress in your relationship. It forms a bond of intimacy and affection that may be wise to save until marriage.

Second, kissing may not directly cause lust. This doesn’t mean that it cannot indirectly cause lust. When you begin to kiss in your relationship, you cross a boundary that allows much more passion to enter your relationship. The emotional connection becomes far greater than before. There may be some desire that finds its way into your hearts. Also, remember that your partner may be falling into temptation even if you are not. It should be in your best interest to keep each other pure and focused on the Lord.

“So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.” – 2 Timothy 2:22

You must treat her as your sister.

This woman is not your wife. Before anything else, she is your sister. She will be your sister for all eternity, but even your marriage will come to an end (Matthew 22:30). Care for her and treat her as your sister in this way. 1 Timothy 5:1-2 says “Do not rebuke an older man, but exhort him as a father, younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and with all propriety, the younger women as sisters.” Though Paul is speaking of rebuke, he encourages Timothy to treat the younger women as sisters.

More than that, he says to do it with all propriety. Treat her with the utmost respect. Treat her in an appropriate way. The Greek word used in this passage for “propriety” is hagneia, which is properly translated “purity” only one chapter earlier (1 Timothy 4:12). We should follow in the advice of Paul to Timothy to treat younger women as sisters with all purity and propriety.

Things may not end the way you think.

Girlfriend is not a life-long status. Christian men, the reason you are dating is so you can determine whether this is the woman who you will marry. Until you are wedded, there is no guarantee that you will be with her forever. I realize that it is not likely that your relationship will end for most of you, but it is still not worth taking the chance.

If this does end up happening, you have been very intimate with someone who will one day belong to another man.

If you have any doubt, don’t do it.

Don’t kiss if there is anything in you which says that you shouldn’t. You should do nothing out of doubt. Do not go against your conscience. By doing this, Paul says that some have made shipwreck of their faith (1 Timothy 1:19). Paul knows a thing or two about shipwrecks (picture proof below), so I would trust him on this.

Having a bad conscience is a good reason to not kiss, whether or not your logic can find fault (Romans 13:5). Scripture speaks numerous times on the importance of keeping a good conscience (Titus 1:15, 1 Timothy 1:5, 3:9, 1 Peter 3:16, and more). If there is anything in you or your significant other thinking that you should not kiss, don’t do it. Make sure that you ask your girlfriend if her conscience is clear about this as well.

Waiting is advised.

I have heard from many wise men and women about boundaries in a dating relationship. There is a pattern in their advice.

The married couples who did not kiss before they got married do not regret it. More than that, they would advise other couples to do the same. Doing this cultivated passion in their relationship later on, and it was totally worth it to them. The married couples who did kiss before they got married say that they would do that differently if they could.

Couples who don’t kiss can testify to you that they lack nothing. They are content and loving in their relationship, and they grow even stronger in the Lord through their fellowship. They advise not kissing until marriage.

I can think of 12 people who have urged me to abstain from kissing. I can think of only 1 who has said that I should. The advice of these godly men and women mean too much for me to ignore.

Do not cause your brother to stumble.

Because you know that abstaining from kissing until marriage is not a sin, you and your partner may decide to allow it. Though you know this, you should still not kiss in front of other believers.

Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother. I know and am persuaded in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself, but it is unclean for anyone who thinks it unclean. For if your brother is grieved by what you eat, you are no longer walking in love. By what you eat, do not destroy the one for whom Christ died. So do not let what you regard as good be spoken of as evil. For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. Whoever thus serves Christ is acceptable to God and approved by men. So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.

Do not, for the sake of food, destroy the work of God. Everything is indeed clean, but it is wrong for anyone to make another stumble by what he eats. It is good not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything that causes your brother to stumble. The faith that you have, keep between yourself and God.

Romans 14:13-22

There are many brothers and sisters who are convinced that this is not wise, and you may not know when they are around you.

This is not legalism.

Accusations of legalism will probably meet my plea. It is not legalistic to pursue holiness and strive to be pleasing to God in every way possible. As R.C. Sproul pointed out, Jesus kept the law perfectly, and he wasn’t a legalist. It is a good thing to live your life in a manner worthy of the gospel. This is a topic for another day, but I encourage you to not reject what I have said because you believe it’s legalistic.

What would you say to these things? Feel free to lovingly keep this conversation going by giving your input in the comments. Blessings on you and your partner.

10 Tips to Write Better Than You Ever Have Before

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Writing blog posts is fun and rewarding. Knowing how to make your blog post amazing and appealing should get you excited about writing.

I recently read Ann Handley’s book Everybody Writes, along with articles from grabcontent, QuickSprout, and Writtent. I have compiled a list of the 10 best and most useful tips so that you can write better than you ever have before.

1. Write the title super well.

Your title is just as important as the rest of your article. Don’t pick one until you have finished writing. And, don’t rush through the process of picking it. It helps to keep a list of possible titles before choosing one. Here are a few tips, with examples of what they look like:

  • No clickbait. (He Wrote an Article So Good His Mama Cried… You Won’t Believe How!)
  • Numbers are your friend. (23 Reasons to Obliterate Comic-Sans)
  • If it’s bland, it’s not worth keeping. (How to Write Well)
  • Nothing too short. (Fantabulous Writing)
  • Nothing too long. (Every Time You Write, Follow This Simple Procedure and You’ll Definitely Prosper)
  • Write to a person. (This Advice Will Help You Write Better)

2. The beginning should be the best.

Forget what you learned in school. You don’t need an introduction that lays out what you will write about in the next three paragraphs. The beginning of your article, if good, will result in people reading to the end. If it is not good, they will not continue any further. Always lead with your strongest, most interesting, or most helpful point. If you need an introduction, a quick two-sentence paragraph (like the one in this article) will do fine.

3. Don’t edit while you write.

Perfection shouldn’t be attained your first write-through. If you try this, you will get bored (and probably not finish writing). Deal with your first draft, however hideous it may be. You can come back later to reorganize, rephrase, and correct what you have written. Putting your information and thoughts down is a different process than critiquing them.

4. Start your sentences with the most important words.

If you really want to keep someone’s attention, have each new thought start well. The most important words in your sentence should be the words that start your sentence. Ann Handley gave a good list of ways not to start your sentences:

  • According to
  • There is a
  • It is important
  • In my opinion
  • The purpose of this [email, post, article, etc] is
  • In 2017 [or any year]
  • I think [feel, believe] that

These shouldn’t be followed absolutely, but it is worth checking your sentences against this list to see if you can make them more interesting.

5. Don’t repeat yourself.

This rule applies in a couple ways. First, it is best not to use the same word multiple times. But, this doesn’t mean it is always wrong to say a word more than once. If you can use a pronoun without being ambiguous (or losing emphasis), do it. Second, don’t repeat an idea that is not your main idea multiple times in the same article. It is not helpful to tell someone the same thing over and over again “just in case they didn’t catch it the first time.”

6. Write in active voice.

Always write in active voice. If you can’t remember what this means, here is a refresher. Active voice is when the subject of your sentence is performing the action (verb) of your sentence. For example, “Bob loves the Bible.” The opposite of that is Passive voice, where what is doing the action is after the verb in your sentence. For example, “The Bible is loved by Bob.” This just complicates things. Plus, it sounds weird.

7. Brevity is okay. So is length.

If you have a topic that you don’t know much about, write a brief article. If you have a topic in which you are well-versed, add some length. It is not good to try to stretch what you have written to make it longer or to condense what you have written so that it won’t take as much time to read.

8. “Assume the reader knows nothing. But don’t assume the reader is stupid.” – Ann Handley

You will have to explain your words and ideas to your audience. This does not mean that you have to dumb-down your words. Though it is good practice to use unsophisticated language, don’t patronize people. As Woody Guthrie once said, “Any fool can make something complicated. It takes a genius to make it simple.”

9. Write to someone.

Keep in mind, it is a regular person who will be reading what you write. Even the most sophisticated CEO would rather read a simple and clear article than a paper filled with academic jargon. Ann Handley recommends starting your draft with “Dear Mom,” and writing like you would to your mom. It helps you keep your audience in perspective. Don’t be afraid to use the pronoun “you.” In short, be personable (not always personal.)

10. Have someone check over your work.

You won’t be able to catch every mistake. Not only can they point out grammatical errors, but they can also tell you how to make it more interesting. A writing buddy is one of the best resources you’ll need so you can write like a pro.

Now that you’ve got these 10 tips, your writing will be better than ever before. But, remember this: If you are not embarrassed about what you wrote a month ago, you aren’t growing. It’s good to realize you could’ve done better. If you need a writing buddy, styling advice, or help with your blog, feel free to contact me.